I'm something of a an edge-dwelling rogue. Well travelled (and not done yet!), fairly well read, with a highly active libido. I sing and make music, with others when possible. Maybe we could make some music together? Moans definitely count! What I want here: to begin with, I want to find someone for occasional hookups. Dating is not my primary interest, at least in the sense that the word is most commonly used. Were ostensibly grownups and this is a slightly polished hookup site. You know that elephant that has been standing around in the living room, grazing on the houseplants? The one with the brown and gold tapestry with the word Sex embroidered on it in bright crimson silk? Id like to lead it out into the sunshine and let it live there. Its made a mess of the carpetâ My first preference would be finding that elusive fem who keeps appearing in my dreams - the one who is somehow suddenly just there with me on a sofa, or on a pile of pillows on the floor, in a house full of people at some function, just sitting next to me, and we are easily and without needing a word said about it all tangled up on the couch, happily and warmly making out, as if weve been together forever - you know the one I mean? Or, just as attractive, honestly, would be to develop a long term /provider relationship with a smart, fun, professional sex worker. Living and working overseas for years at a time I had that sort of relationship with a few people, and it was lovely. We had fun and became really good friends over time. I havent tried that here yet, because been busy with other things, but at this point Im feeling the need. And, yeah, Im that guy: Physical appearance matters. You dont need to be a model, or a twenty-something. I prefer the range of slender to a bit voluptuous. Age - prefer younger, but it’s the attitude that is most important: an intact sense of childlike playfulness erases time and age. Implants that make you look and feel like an actual Barby doll are a turnoff. Pix enhanced with filters that expand body parts are obvious and unattractive. Im more partial to shapely and generous hips than huge breasts - no butts about it. That said, if your eyes are lively, and it becomes clear that you can think and speak in paragraphs, and most importantly, can play with words and imagination, suddenly the physical dwindles in importance. For fun and sanity, I play music and sing, with others, whenever possible. It’s been a dream to find a lover who is also a singing partner. There’s almost nothing closer to nirvana than singing harmony with a fellow human, and finding that in a romantic partner is pretty much as good as it gets!

My Ideal Person If we become FWB:
Someone who wants a fairly regular (1-2 times per month, to begin with), ongoing relationship built on passionate rendezvous, fun hangouts, long nights in bed. Someone who enjoys lots of physical attention, in public or private. I'm not clingy, just love your body, your closeness, your smell, the feeling of your skin against mine, and it feels good, making you feel good. And that, at least as much as anything else either of us does, makes me feel good

You're basically happy, optimistic. Yo've weathered the storms and learned from them - not capitulated to bitterness. You don't need to be, or act like, a model or a porn star.That said, a good smile, twinkly, mischievous eyes. Reasonably nice figure, healthy.

If you're a pro..., I welcome the chance to be with you. I've been involved in one way or another with sex-workers since I was 19, and you have already got my respect and, depending on how well you've managed perhaps my admiration. My