After 8 years living through post partem depression and a pandemic amongst other things, my wife and I have agreed to separate as the passion has dwindled. We are still dedicated parents who show love to our everyday. I'd love to meet open minded people in similar situations who are looking to explore their sexuality outside the white picket fence.

My Ideal Person I'm an looking for both men and women who share my interest, in a discrete way.

Ladies: Feel free to flirt or friend me and we can share stories about sex, and maybe some photos, or just chat and get to know each other. I am open to casual encounters as well as finding my soulmate.

Guys: Still don't mind making some friends are in similar situations and have similar interests. I admit I have thought about some sex with men, but I am super picky. You would have to have a really nice cock (like mine, haha) but not be too cock-y. I think it would be fun to read/watch straight porn and masturbate together, not sure more than that. I have thought about getting ejaculated on though.

Couples: I'm up for anything you might be, from just watching to being a full participant.

"Do not be afraid of exploring your sexuality, fantasies, and desires. Embrace them. Love them. Make them yours. They are part of who you are..."

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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