Looking for female who likes NSA sex on a casual or ongoing basis.. Don't care for the bar scene and love giving oral

My Ideal Person I've thought about this and finally feel like I can put what I'm looking for and not looking for in here. I am looking for a lady that likes being respected and treated like a lady. I'm looking for my best friend, a person I love being with, sharing from the simplest of things to the most treasured thoughts and things with. I'm looking for a person that is happy with themselves, has learned that you must first love yourself and be content with being with yourself before you can be loved by others for who you are. I am looking for a lady that understands your happier being yourself than attempting to be what you think someone else wants or is looking for. It's not important what others think but much more important what you think and hope you feel about yourself. I am looking for the lady that is open to the things I enjoy in life as much as I would what they enjoy. I'm looking for the lady that I can't wait to see at night and love seeing and talking to each morning. Honesty is so important to me.

The things I'm not looking for is simple. I'm not looking for the person who expects to fall madly in love the first time we meet. I'm not looking for the person who thinks a persons picture is all chemistry is before they ever talk or meet and get to know each other, many friends are lost because of the pre shallow judgments. I'm not looking for the person that is still carrying a ton of emotional baggage or can't enjoy life because the are still dwelling so much on the past. If you spend every night going to the bar we won't be a good match, I love going out but every night says your not ready to be with a person on a regular basis. If family takes a back burner we definitely won't get along.

I love the outdoors in the summer, spring and fall and tolerate the winter. I work hard to enjoy life I don't live to just love work. I love camping, fishing, lakes, out and indoor concerts. I love Husker sports, used to coach select sports and still love working with kids. I love eating out, movies, drinks, friends but most important love my kids and family. I love BBQ'ing, road trips and good company and I definitely love sharing it all with a person I love being with and care about.

Theres more but that's what makes meeting someone so special.